1. What is his name? Nicholaus Christopher Chipping
2. Who eats more? Definitely Nick. Especially when it comes to Oreo's. I have to ration him or he will eat a whole bag in one sitting!
3. Who said, "I love you" first? Ok, so I had to ask Nicholaus about this one because I didn't remember at first. It was our 2nd week dating and we were at a stop light driving to his house. I remember I had to ask him what he said because he said it so quietly I wasn't sure if he really said it.
4. Who is taller? Nicholaus (5'10") Me (5'8" or 9" not sure)
5. Who is smarter? We both have our specialties. Nicholaus can tell you almost anything about new technology, apple stuff, sports cars, and the gospel. He is also really good with math and spelling which are both my biggest weaknesses. With me its anything animal, or craft stuff and then I love science.
6. Who is more sensitive? Absolutely me! Poor Nicholaus has really had to put up with a lot being married to such a cry baby that takes everything personal. He is a great sport with it though. I always think that he is the only one patient enough to put up with me and my emotions.
7. Who does the laundry? I do, and I can tell I have been slacking and its time to do the whites when he starts to wear his black church socks with shorts and sneakers. ( It drives me crazy!)
8. Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? Typically I sleep on the right but it depends on what side is closest to the door. He insists he sleeps there in case some one broke in he could protect me. I used to argue that but he always won so I stopped.
9. Who pays the bills? We both do. He used to keep up on all the bills and I didn't know what we payed where but now that he works such long hours all week I have taken the job up mostly.
10. Who cooks more? Me for sure! He makes some mean breakfast burritos but he gets this panicky look on his face when the meal gets more elaborate than that. He is such a sweet husband and helps clean up and do the dishes all the time but the cooking is definitely my job. Just the other night he asked for seconds and I told him he could go get more and then he asked if I could go help him with it. I could not help but laugh.
11. Who is more stubborn? Two years ago I would have said me but being married to Nicholaus has really calmed me down in that area. I think we tie on this one right now. It really depends on the time of day though. If its bedtime and he is tired, there is absolutely no discussion as to what is happening. Those lights are going out and we are going to bed or he is not a very happy person. But if its morning and he's trying to wake me up theres not much success in talking me out of bed.
12. Who is the first to admit they are wrong? Again, I think we are at a tie. Honestly it usually is whoever really is wrong. It depends who is more emotional at the time as well though. If I start to cry he usually caves or if I can tell he is really upset I will cave but I think we have a pretty healthy level to both. That is something that I have always loved about Nicholaus. He is such a humble person that he is ok with admitting he is wrong. I have had to learn how to do the same which is not easy at times.
13. Who has more siblings? Nicholaus by far. He comes from a family of 7 children including him. He has 5 brothers and 1 sister. I am an only child. So all those siblings was quite a shock. I love every one of them though!
14. Who wears the pants in the relationship? Well it depends on how you look at it. He makes a lot more money than I do but I work really hard at home too so I like to say we both wear the pants.
15. What do you like to do together? Lately just having time together is wonderful. We love going to the movies or out to eat. We really like doing outdoor stuff together though like roller blading, swimming, hiking, walking, camping, going for drives. We also love to play cards like Phase 10 or Uno.
16. Who eats more sweets? Well Nicholaus is a cookie monster but I love dark chocolate. We try to stay away from sweets but we are not very good at it.
17. Guilty Pleasures? Nicholaus and I have been on this kick with this restaurant called Grand Lux Cafe. It is owned by the people who created the Cheesecake Factory but it is so much better! It is this glamorous gorgeous restaurant that you think would cost an arm and a leg to eat at but is somewhat reasonably priced. For the past couple of months we have gone there every Saturday night. Nicholaus always gets the Sautéed Swordfish and I get the Grilled Mahi Mahi. It is so much fun because they have great music playing and its such a beautiful place with wonderful service. It sort of feels like you are on vacation and I figure since Nick works such long weeks he deserves it and I am lucky enough to tag along!
18. How did you meet? Well, we met in December of 2005 when Angie Meeks (then Jefferson) and Maren McLaughlin ( I probably spelled that wrong!) came over caroling with some friends. Nick was there with his friend Ryan Meeks and I immediately thought he was the best thing ever! I tried to talk to him all night and he would either give me a blank stare and walk away or would laugh and then walk away. It was horrible!! I was convinced that he hatted me but latter found out that he was just terrified of me. Even after all of that I just knew I was going to marry him and that night went home and told my mom that. I don't know how to describe it, I hadn't ever experienced anything before where I just absolutely knew that is what I was supposed to do. The next time we met was the 2nd week of January. Angie and Ryan set us up on a blind date and we spent every day together after that. We where engaged a month latter and married 4 months after that.
19. Who asked whom out first? Neither, blind date. But that night Nick asked me out again.
20. Who kissed who first? Nicholaus, he kept faking me out for a week, acting like he was going to and then not and then two weeks after we had been dating he finally kissed me. I was wondering if he ever was going to!
21. Who proposed? Nicholaus. He acted like we where going to the Gateway mall to make some finalizations on my ring and then surprised me and proposed there by the fountains. It was way cute, he was so scared even though he knew I was going to say yes.
22. His best features and qualities? Everything! He is by far the most amazing person I have ever met. Everyday I am reminded of what a blessing it is to be a part of his life. He is such a strength to me and our marriage. Anyone who knows him knows that he is one of the sweetest and selfless people who would do anything for anyone. His spirit is so kind and his testimony is a rock. On top of all that he is an absolute dork with a great sense of humor. It has taken some time to get used to the fact that he doesn't care what people think of him so he is just silly everywhere we go. I could not have dreamed of having a more loving, compassionate, supportive, wonderfully perfect husband!!
23. Tag you’re it. Who do you tag? Jenny Marie and Katrina (this means you have to start a blog now wrinkle! :) )